Itโs fun, itโs pleasurable, itโs the magic of someone going down on you. Oral sex is such a powerful part of intimacy for women, but expressing our desires can be just as daunting as it is exhilarating. For many women, expressing what truly ignites your passion in the bedroom remains a whispered secret, but we promise you that with open communication, you can transform your intimate experiences into something extraordinary.
Here are our top tips to help express how you like to receive oral sex through a journey of exploration, honesty, and connection.
Letโs See It
Many people are visual creatures โ they love to look and see, and this makes them more excited than ever to get the party started, so to speak. What better way to show your partner what you like than by showing them how you get there yourself? This is a great opportunity to demonstrate movement, motion, and intensity with your hand, and allow your partner to see the affects happen in real time.
Not only will it be a great learning opportunity, but you are almost guaranteed to turn them on in ways you never thought possible. Youโll also be good to go without any extra foreplay. You can even surprise your partner by getting started while you wait for them to โaccidentallyโ walk in on you.
Real-Time Touch
No one likes being interrupted when youโre in the swing of things, but sometimes in order to guide your partner through what youโre enjoying, you need to communicate during the act itself. We all know how tricky it is to show your partner when theyโre down there already, so how do you go about telling them what you need in the moment?
One sure-fire way to communicate your needs is the mirror method. You can mimic the movements, the pressure, and the intensity by using your finger on the back of their neck, hand, or closest body part. This way, you can give instructions in real-time without interrupting the moment. You will just need to explain to your partner beforehand, so that they can be receptive to your cues.
Show Them Up
You might find it more beneficial to be able to demonstrate the movements on your partner so they can experience the same pleasure that you hope to achieve. Maybe you just enjoy this more, in which case, this is the perfect excuse!
Showing your partner through oral sex, exactly what you want them to do is an incredible way to connect and learn at the same time. Most of us absolutely love seeing our partner get pleasure from our hard work, and itโs no different when focusing on techniques that we want to demonstrate for our own benefit later on.
Obviously, this will be more straight forward when you share the same anatomy as your partner, but this technique works just as well on a male partner. You can focus on just the tip, as if it was your clitoris, playing close attention to how you want them to remember the motion.
Spicy Movie Night
We love a little bit of entertainment, so when โNetflix and chillโ doesnโt cut it, we recommend getting out the spicy movies to get everyone in the mood. The only difference is that we want to be strategic about the video, so that we are also showing our partner what we want them to try. This can be tricky to see details, but if there are special positions or actions that you want to suggest to your partner, then porn can be an amazing resource.
Amp It to The Max!
So, now that you and your partner have the perfect oral sex techniques in the basket, itโs time to take it to the next level. Introducing a sex toy into the mix has been proven to add intensity and intimacy into your sexual encounter. Finding that ideal combination of tongue and toy will help you achieve the most intense and pleasurable orgasm possible and has even been reported to increase the duration and intensity of follow-up orgasms! Some women may prefer to start with their favourite clit stimulating vibrator and then switch to oral, and others prefer a combination, or alternating, between the two.
We at Peachii have designed a toy that functions just like the best oral sex of your life โ pure clitoral stimulation that mimics the best head imaginable. Little Pink is the perfect toy to achieve customisable pleasure through varying intensities leading to unbeatable wellness. We hear over and over again about how partners love seeing their partners use Little Pink and makes follow-up sex even more intense.
